Financial Education with Our Child: The Lesson of Coupons
On a sunny spring morning, it was my birthday. As I was preparing breakfast, my daughter Jimin quietly approached from behind.
"Mom, happy birthday!" Jimin said with a bright smile.
I turned to look at Jimin. At that moment, I noticed the colorful papers in her small hands.
"What's this?" I asked curiously.
Jimin proudly held out the papers. "Special coupons for you, Mom! I made them myself."
I received the coupons with a touched heart. Looking at each one, I saw things like 'Doing the dishes', 'Giving Mom a massage', 'Cleaning the room' - things Jimin occasionally did for me.
"Wow, what a special gift. Thank you, Jimin." I hugged her tightly.
A few weeks later, on a weekend afternoon, Jimin was playing happily with her friends, and I was doing housework. Suddenly, I remembered the coupons Jimin had given me.
"Jimin," I called from the kitchen. "Can you come here for a moment?"
Jimin approached with a frown. "What is it, Mom?"
I took out a coupon and showed it to her. "Remember this? I'd like to use this 'Doing the dishes' coupon."
Jimin's expression suddenly hardened. "Mom, now? But I was playing..."
I smiled gently. "Yes, now. Coupons can be used anytime, right?"
Jimin stamped her feet and said, "Oh, I don't know. Just take the coupon back. I don't want to do it now."
I was silent for a moment.
"Jimin, shall we sit down? Let's talk for a bit." I pointed to the kitchen chair.
Jimin sat down with a disgruntled expression.
"Do you know what a coupon is?" I asked.
Jimin tilted her head. "Um... a paper that lets you get something for free?"
I nodded. "That's right. But that's not all. A coupon is also a kind of promise."
"A promise?" Jimin's eyes widened.
"Yes. The person who makes the coupon has an obligation to fulfill what's written on it. That's the value of the coupon."
Jimin thought for a moment. "So... because I made the coupon, I have to keep it?"
"That's right. When you made this coupon, you promised to provide this service to Mom."
Jimin's expression started to change. "I see... but I really don't want to do it now..."
I smiled gently and said, "I know. Sometimes we don't want to do things. But this is what responsibility is. When we promise something, it's important to keep that promise. Shall we talk more? If you don't keep your promises, these coupons will be worthless in the future. And Mom might be disappointed in you."
Jimin's expression darkened for a moment, but then brightened as if she had made a decision. "Okay, Mom. I promised, so I should keep it. I'll do the dishes."
I stroked Jimin's head. "Thank you, sweetie. By the way, want to hear an interesting story about coupons?"
Jimin's eyes sparkled with curiosity. "Yes, I'm curious!"
"The word 'coupon' originally comes from French. It's derived from the word 'couper', which means 'to cut'."
"To cut?" Jimin looked puzzled.
"Yes. In the old days, things like bonds or stocks were issued on large pieces of paper with many attached. And every time you received interest, you would cut off a piece of that paper. That cut-off part was called a 'coupon'."
Jimin nodded. "Oh, I see! So the coupons I made are something you give back to me after you receive the service?"
"That's right, Jimin. After Mom receives your service, I'll give you the coupon. It becomes proof that you kept your promise."
From that day on, Jimin seemed to think more seriously every time she made coupons. But as time passed, the child inevitably began to forget again. Despite learning the importance of keeping promises, she sometimes forgot the meaning of coupons. This meant that our journey of financial education was not over yet, and made us realize that we needed more conversations and experiences in the future.